Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Gift NOT RENT OK...

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2016-04-20 Wed 1 PM McParis...

Joey Arnold

Happy birthday. Merry Christmas. I gave her all of my money as a gift & not for rent. Those two things are two different things. They stole it. They abused it. They altered it from its original intention. It was a present. What they gave me was also a present as well. They helped me and then I helped them.
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But I didn't help them because they helped me. Those are two different events or actions or things. Don't assume wrongly. But we tend to make up things and add details to stories instead of attempting to understand what actually happened. But I was verbally abused, harassed, violated, robbed, for the help I gave them. They owe me thousands of dollars for the work I did. But they are asking for money from me. They want me to pay money for the work I did for them. But I already gave them money as a gift. They owe me for the work I've been doing for them since the year of 2013 in Saigon. Now, it's the year 2016. I am their friend but they pretend to say I'm the enemy. They do many bad things to me. It's a long story but I've been trying to help them and I get punished for my help. I get accused of doing bad things. They are demanding money from me for the many months of sacrifice I donated to them. They are telling people lies about me now.
Soren Kirchner welcome to Vietnam: you pay. The new slogan
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Joey Arnold
Joey Arnold Focus more on simpler exchanges
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Soren Kirchner
Soren Kirchner you abdicated your personal finacial responcibility to others thinking "they would take care of you". That was a mistake so move on and be responcible for your money, work and life. You were a volentary victim, as usual
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Joey Arnold
Joey Arnold I allow things happen because it's better that way for a variety of reasons as its story can and does.....
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Romelus Saladar Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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Joey Arnold
Joey Arnold Soren Kirchner, it may seem to be that way, but that doesn't mean that I don't know better and it doesn't mean I'm NOT aware that it may not work or that bad things may happen, as in consequences, side effects, or other things......... etc....
Soren Kirchner
Soren Kirchner you say it was a "gift", then you complain that they did not taake care of your life
Soren Kirchner
Soren Kirchner a gift , a real one, is no strings attached. So you did not give a gift, you made an agreement which maybe was clear to you but not to them. This is why adults use what are called" contracts":
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Joey Arnold Soren Kirchner, but I really like to give people the opportunity to help because it helps to help and it helps to let people participate and contribute in helping and people have gifts of hospitality and people become better when they help and people l...See more
Soren Kirchner
Soren Kirchner what did you really expect for 1000 usd? A lifetime of room and board? You are addicted to drama and chaos.
Joey Arnold
Joey Arnold Soren Kirchner, I did not expect anything from what I gave them. I was not buying something at a store. It was not for rent. It was out of generosity.... selfless love....
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Joey Arnold
Joey Arnold Soren Kirchner, I AM NOT complaining. I AM NOT asking for them to help me. I DO NOT WANT HELP. I DO NOT CARE ABOUT THAT. I care about their brain and logic. I care about how they think I owe them when they owe me.
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When I say they owe me, that is a fa
ct but not a request. I like telling people things because I want people to know....
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For example, one time at McDonald's, I think they made a mistake on my order and I came back to tell them and they offered me a free drink BUT I SAID NO THANK YOU.
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I did not want anything except to tell them about what happened to help them and not to help me...
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I am not asking for help or money or anything....
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Except for a higher level of education, thinking, accountability, character, integrity, perspective, eternal outlook, confrontation, joy, peace, love, agape, and very important things, qualities, principles, morality, that are to guide and help us globally, eternally, nationally, locally, and even individually.
Soren Kirchner
Soren Kirchner Joey, here is what you do. Borrow from your family, pay off yhour fine, get your visa current, get a room with a shower and either advance your own teaching business or get a job. That simple. I have been telling you this patiently for months now. But no...you need to be bullheaded, or pig headed and create more problems for yourself. Its getting old, man.
Joey Arnold
Joey Arnold Soren Kirchner, but this post is not about me. What I must do to take care of myself is my responsibility. However, that doesn't automatically cancel out responsibilities that others may have from time to time for the sake of humanity and eternity and beyond and os much more...
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Joey Arnold
Joey Arnold Soren Kirchner, my gift was a gift. The issues here is not about that really. I gave them a gift. It is a gift. But I want you to know that they rejected my gift without telling me. They used deception. They came back to turn the gift into something very bad. They violated and perverted the gift I gave them. I don't regret giving them that gift. But I am sad that they don't see it as a gift. If you ask them, they may say that I was required to give that gift to them and that I owe them more for the work I did for them. The gift I gave them put me in more debt when they were actually in debt with me.
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For example, say they owed me $10. And I gave them $5. That puts me down to negative $15. Or at least negative $10. But then they asked for $5 after saying that it would be. It always was free before during the past 3 years until now. Nothing has changed really but they claim that things are different now even as things are not really different than before.
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I give them far more than they give me. But they claim that they give me far more than I give them. They live in a lie of depravity. They don't care about everything I do and they abuse me.
Soren Kirchner
Soren Kirchner Im done with trying to help you
Joey Arnold
Joey Arnold Soren Kirchner, I do not want help from people, ever. I never really ask for help, but I do allow people to help.

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