Saturday, April 30, 2016

Black Hole

I'm in a black hole. Money I make is sucked into that vortex. I'm a freelance English Teacher, Tutor, in Saigon, Vietnam. I'm an American, born 1985. I'm a missionary, volunteer. I work all the time for people. I make some money. But people number one, money number two. Moved to VN in 2012.
But I'm in a black hole. My plan is to save money & take a bus to Cambodia. I could try to get a letter from a company or agency in Vietnam that can sponsor me which may allow me to buy a new visa for Vietnam in Cambodia.
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But when I go to the border, they may not like how long I have been overstaying, since my visa expired on Wednesday, the 9th of December, 2015, last year, about five months ago now, as of the end of April, or now May 2016.
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It is hard for foreigners who only overstay an hour late or maybe a day late, or a few days late, or maybe a week late but probably not later than that normally. Foreigners pay about $10 or up $30 per day they overstay. There may be other fines added to that as well.
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Like I said before, I could try to get an invitation letter which can allow me to make a new VN visa in Cambodia and that can help me return to Vietnam.
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And Vietnamese law says it requires foreigners to be sponsored by Vietnamese people, companies, agencies. That is what I read on a Vietnamese website in Vietnamese talking about Vietnamese law. And Vietnamese people say that it is true.
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But it might be too late. I may have overstayed too long. And I may not be able to find a sponsor who is willing to risk their reputation on me. Because the government can get mad at them, fine, jail, kill them... or it may cost me more than $1,000 or maybe $2,000 to fix this black hole. I call it a black hole because all the money I make now will probably be sucked into that black hole. I could be fined or jailed or worse maybe. Maybe I am being dramatic. But it is hard to say what will happen.
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I can be blacklisted for overstaying for 5 months as opposed to only a few days. But travel agencies said I was blacklisted already when I tried to extend my DN business visa in the year 2015 before my visa expired and then during and after in December and after that too.
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If I was rich, I would have a lawyer help. My plan is to stay in Vietnam & leave in the summer at the soonest.
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But I should try to go somewhere for work cuz the border may take all my money when I leave VN. And Vietnam may never let me return to Vietnam ever again, or I may have to wait a month, a year, or five years or something...... So, I will try my best to figure out where I can go. If you have ideas. Tell me. I know, I can go to America. But I would like more specifics before going. And I am afraid of Muslims in America.
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VN DN Visas Denied 3rd Extension in 2015 for American?

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  • Eric Kim
    29/04/2016 22:40
    Eric Kim
    I know you are an illegal immigrant here and I have a heist which I need a partner, are you interested? Estimate each will have 50k-100k usd.
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  • Joey Arnold
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    I am not a murderer. I am trying to make a visa.
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  • Eric Kim
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    Eric Kim
    Look you are already over staying here for so long, it's impossible to get a visa. The only way is if you have money get a citizenship here. It will cost you at least 50k to get the citizenship. Just think about it.
  • Joey Arnold
    16:40
    Joey Arnold
    I disagree. Based on what I have heard. I have heard otherwise. You are either lying or you are uninformed with the options. There are different options available. Plus, my situation should be investigated farther. DN visas can be extended 3 times according to some websites as of the year 2015, but Tuan Travel only gave me 2 different 3-month extensions but denied a 3rd extension. Around 4 other travel agencies refused to extend it as well. I may try to go to Cambodia & make a new VN visa and then try to return to Vietnam. I just got to have enough money and hope for the best. But once I leave Vietnam, I may not be allowed back ever again. So, I have to be ready for that when I do go.
  • Eric Kim
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    Eric Kim
    You really don't understand your situation, you are already over staying here without visia for a long time, if you're overstay here for just a few days, it's possible to extend your visa but now if you want to exit and extend it's not possible. You will be able to exit with a fine and can't enter into Vietnam, some more you will be blacklisted and future you can't enter anymore. If whoever is telling you that you're able to extend it, they are talking bullshit to you. For your case is if you exit Vietnam, you'll be fine and will be deported out. If you want it that way than never mind.
  • Joey Arnold
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    My visa expired 2015-12-09. That was Wednesday, the 9th of December 2015. I went to extend my visa on Thursday, the 3rd, a week before that. ........... I was not able to extend "BEFORE" my visa expired. I tried different agencies. They said I was blacklisted. . THEREFORE, it does not matter if overstaying blacklists me now if I was ALREADY BLACKLISTED according to the agencies. I have been in Vietnam since 2012 and visited Cambodia twice to make new visas. I have made new visas and/or extended every 3 months since the year 2012 in and for Vietnam about 12 or more times and I know how to do these things and have talked to many people and have read many things about it and looked at Vietnamese laws about these things.... I do my research as much as I can..... . I am not the bad person here. I am not a criminal here.... I was put into this situation somehow..... and I would love for a lawyer to tell me why I was like in a blacklist in 2015 before my visa even expired to begin with....





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Enjoy The Show

My friend sang The Show by Lenka many times. I have not seen the music video until today, Saturday, the 30th of April 2016. For years, I've only heard my friend sing it as a cover.
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But goosebumps are popping all over my body now because I am seeing the show in a different and renewed way now. I'm just a little girl, or boy, caught in the middle of life.... is a maze & love is a riddle. I don't know what to do... can't figure it out, I've tried.... I've got to let it go & enjoy the show, view, perspective, as it accelerates appreciation, love, joy, life, in so many ways, increasing our inner and outer appearances. I am learning this more and more as I get older. I am here to be vulnerable here. And I am learning that vulnerability is strength as well. Slaves can't really be vulnerable. Kids can't be vulnerable. But we can grow up & show our hearts to people. But honesty is a taboo. It is seen as not a virtue, unless if it is convenient. That is why honest people are rare and shunned. But knowledge is power. And we are more beautiful than we realize
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I am sad about the mistakes I make. But I mean well. i try to help people. I try to do good. I do things that might be "GOOD" or something, but I don't take the time to always make "BETTER" decisions and that is a pity. Therefore, I ruin and destroy relationships and friendships with others, because I speak the truth but not in a loving way, a sensitive, delicate, considerate, culturally attuned manner to an extent necessary for preserving progress, development, and other good things. My goals now is in being more simple and happy. I aim to smile more and to help people in different ways. I seek to be more friendly. Everyday, I learn, teach, & grow. I am bad. But I am working everyday to improve. Sorry for being bad. Forgive me. I have many things to learn each day. I have more to say. Thank you so much and stay tuned for more.....
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My friend sang this song all the time. I am learning to love it now. I am starting to see the show but in a new way now.
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I work and I volunteer all of my time for the service of others. I work each day. I work on Saturdays, Sundays, as in weekends. I work seven days each week. I work in the morning, in the afternoon, in the evening, and even at night. I do not take breaks. I do not go on vacations or holidays or trips. Do what you love and love what you do.
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Ngoc Anh Bui hoping one day you'll to visit Hanoi !
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I have no plans for this holiday here in Saigon.
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Beauty in People Everywhere


Found a YouTube video series called 100 Years of Beauty from Watch Cut Videos. I see incredible beauty in women in each decade from the 1910's to the 2010's from different countries. The world is full of multiple layers of beauty. It makes me cry. Perspective accelerates our appreciation for what we got, instead of being lost in what we don't have. Love what you do and do what you love. Focus on what you can do right now for others. Smile more in the beauty that you were given through that design naturally without too much bad force. Sometimes, we try to force things or make things happen in bad ways. But we can be patient. We can learn better as we teach others what we are learning.
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Women are so beautiful. Men are handsome or beautiful as well. We should cherish that. Write down what you believe and share your doctrinal statements with your family & others. Debate about it. If you want to marry, talk to your date about what you believe. It is better when you have the same goals as your date or spouse. It is better to talk about it NOW before marriage. There is so much beauty in so many people. Therefore, don't marry people for their beauty alone. Marry them because you are them in a variety of ways. You guys need to be lovers, friends, partners, siblings, and everything. The bond needs to be build on spiritual commitment and not emotional lust.
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Friday, April 29, 2016

Never Leave You Until Now

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tớ sẽ ko bỏ cậu 1 mình vì tớ là người bạn của cậu nhưng câu ấy ko tốt với tớ khi tớ luôn tốt với bạn ấy.
tớ sẽ ko bỏ cậu 1 mình vì tớ là người bạn của cậu nhưnng câu ấy ko tốt với tớ khi tớ luôn tốt với cậu ấy.
tớ muốn tốt với cậu nhưng câu luôn đâm chọt tớ sau lưng.
tớ cần 1 người bạn 1 người bạn chân thành chia sẽ chứ ko cần 1 người bạn luôn hãm hại tớ. đi qa đi lại thì chồng tớ vẫn yêu thương tớ hơn khi ngoài kia ngoài đcường vẫn đang dèm pha tớ. chồng tớ là 1 người bạn thân 1 người yêoa tớ. tớ ko còn là bạn cậu nữa. đi qa đi lại thì chồng tớ là người bạn thân nhất của tớ, người yêu người thương người kéo tớ khỏi vực sau. dù ngoài kia có hiu lầm tớ nhưng chính xác hơn tớ chỉ cần người chông người bạn thân hiểu tớ là được. tớ block cậu như tớ chưa hề có 1 người bạn như cậu,
I will not leave you alone for 1 I am your friend, but she's fine with me, not when I'm always good with you.
I will not leave you alone, because I'M 1 who is your friend that question. She is good with me, not when I'm always good with him.
I want to be good for you, but the story always stab me in the back.
I need 1 FRIENDS 1 friend leg part? Need 1 people, not that you always try to harm me. Go go go back, my husband still loves me more than when out there are still out đcường dèm make me. Man I'M 1, friend 1 people. Yêoa I'm not you, you, too. Go go go back, my husband is my best friend, my lover, I love the pull from the area after. Whatever is out there. I understand mistakes, but more accurate, I just need a friend who will understand me is okay. I block you like I didn't have 1 friend like you,
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Accept What You Cannot Change

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    You cannot control every situation. But you can completely control your thoughts and your attitude.
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    Bạn không thể kiểm soát được mọi tình huống xảy ra. Nhưng bạn hoàn toàn có thể kiểm soát được suy nghĩ và thái độ của mình.
    You cannot control every situation. But you can completely control your thoughts and your attitude.
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    You can't control every situation occurs. But you can control the thoughts and my attitude.
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    I love my life, why don't you?
    In my life, I have been going through a lot of things, meeting a lot of different types of people.. and getting into many problems that make people criticise me, judge me, and let me down.. During the time, there are also people who lift me up through difficult time. Some of them are my friends, some of them aren't. I got down, I got up.. I understand that life isn't as easy as we wish. I understand that there's a long way to the happiness, but I think they all worth for it. smile emoticon I need to have a positive mind to get through things and be strong for my family because I love them so much. I am a lucky one because I am quite happy with what I have.. I don't need to prove to anyone that I am, just because I know it myself.
    I am just so grateful for this life bringing me such precious. I have so many beautiful people around supporting me, and that love me so much. And for all that, I will pay back by living a happy life. There will be always people critise and judge your life, but remember you're the one living with it smile emoticon so don't live for them!!! They are neither take the responsibilities for you nor take care of your family, so why care? Not that you have to live like needed no person because you need one! Don't stay alone or being lonely, that won't help either. There will be people look at your life and say to you "I don't want to live your life", and you will also have times that you wish you can live that one's life.. but then, when everything is gone, you're back to your own journey and that time if you're still happy with it, then you're truly living your life smile emoticon Don't try to be someonelse, or belong to the group you're not.
    i sometimes might regret that i were too nice that let things happen wrongly, and wish time could turn back.. There's no such a wish, and just face with it. Things will happen, and will go away.. And what you need to do is to live the best for it. Don't regret, don't hesitate. Understand that life is up and down, so I don't live with the past and or the future.. I just focus to my current life. I understand a lot of people living for the future, but that future will be for their children, their beloved ones or maybe themselves.. That's good, you don't know if you die tomorow.. but if you're only focusing on the future, who takes care of the present? What are you missing behind? Do you even know or notice? Life isn't easy to balance as we think it is, so why so stress out and make things worse!
    Many people tell me that they would walk away if they were me, they would do something different if they were me.. Maybe I am stupid and they are smart, but you never know until you've been in the shoes.. Maybe they never choose the path i go, so they don't have to get in the same troubles, but that doesn't mean their life is easy. Everyone has their own path, don't judge! Just live your life and help others if you can. That's how I live my life.. People always tell "Don't get into the troubles that you don't want", who knows we would! Laugh at it, cry with it, solve it!
    There will be times that you look back at things and just smile at it.. Thinking that why we were like that. I learn to forgive and forget.. Maybe that's how I am so happy even when its so tough most of the time. Forgive and Forget, that helps me a lot! Maybe you should try it too.. Stay with simple happy little things like a yummy piece of cake heart emoticon Everything will be like a piece of cake to you (in a good meaning) smile emoticon
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    Người có vận mệnh tốt là người ăn nói có chừng mực, mỗi lời nói đều thể hiện là người có đạo đức, họ không dùng ngôn từ mạnh để phê phán, chê bai người khác, không dài dòng nói từ chuyện nọ sang chuyện kia, không kể công của bản thân mình sau khi đã giúp ai đó. Lời nói của họ luôn chân thành, với...
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    Before you judge my life, my past or my character, walk in my shoes, walk the path I have traveled, live my sorrows, my doubts, my fear, my pain & my laughter... Remember everyone has a story, when you have lived my life then you can judge me...But if not, then keep silent.
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    Trước khi bạn phát xét cuộc sống, quá khứ, hay tính cách của tôi. Hãy đi vào đôi giày của tôi, đi con đường mà tôi đã đi qua, hãy trải qua sự đau khổ,nghi ngờ, sự sợ hãi, nỗi đau, tiếng cười của tôi...Hãy nhớ mỗi người đều có một câu chuyện. Khi bạn đã sống cuộc đời của tôi. Bạn có thể phán xét tôi. Còn nếu không, xin hãy giữ yên lặng!